Trauma-Mongers – Christ Church Downtown Exhortation

Psalm 37:25a doesn’t make its way onto many Hallmark Cards: “I was young & now I am old.” You are aging. Your body isn’t infinite. Very soon your earthly sojourn will be done. Aging is inevitable. This being the case, it’s imperative to make Moses’ prayer yours: “Teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom (Psa 90:12).” 

Paul tells young Timothy to flee youthful lusts. Elsewhere, he gives different warnings to aging saints.  Both older men and women are summoned to sobriety (Tit. 2:2-3). Older men are admonished to be patient, while older women are explicitly given a warning against drunkenness and being busybodies. 

Aging comes with temptations to grumbling, resentment, and regret. Life never adheres to youthful daydreams. Providence socks you on the jaw. Sin brings hard consequences. Others wrong and fail you. Thus, Paul’s stress on patience & sobriety. Older men are tempted to become impatient with youthful zeal, or else grow despondent and long for death in despair. Older women can become intoxicated with wine or pills or romance novels, seeking escape from their duties, regrets, or pains. 

Scripture paints another picture of aging righteously: “They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing (Ps. 92:14); When I am old and grayheaded, O God, forsake me not; until I have shewed thy strength unto this generation, and thy power to every one that is to come (Ps. 71:18).” Notice that combination of steadfast faith and undiminished fruitfulness in order to pass on both material and spiritual provision to future generations.

The chasm between aging righteously & unrighteously is found in that wonderful word: faithfulness. Faithfulness demands an object of faith and only the everlasting arms of Christ are strong enough to hold you steadfast through each year and enable you to truly age gracefully.

Ben Zornes – June 30, 2024

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Raising children is not a duty which can be put on autopilot. This is especially true in a Christian community like ours. While there’s a great deal of likemindedness and similar standards, it is your calling as moms and dads to remain vigilant in the two-fold calling of training up your children in the way they should go and in driving out the folly that is bound up in their heart.

Parenting is like pouring a concrete slab for a new building. Without forms, you’ll end up with a useless and hardened blob. Think of the Word and the Body of Christ as the forms which give shape and boundary to the foundation you’re pouring with each child you are raising. But the forms will do no good if you do not pour the concrete of faithful nurture and instruction of your children. 

Many Christian parents assume that someone else will eventually pour the concrete of godly character into the forms. Then, as their children enter adulthood, parents are jarred to find that only a few uneven patches of gravel are in place.

So then, parents, be vigilant. Don’t assume that dropping your kids off for a playdate with another Christian family will have no potential pitfalls for your kids. Don’t assume that the neighbor kids will be wholesome influences on your kids. Don’t assume that others have the same entertainment standards you have. Even amongst your own children, don’t assume there are no follies which they can fall into. Coach them up before various life-events, and then review the game film. Always let them know that they can talk with you about anything that happens.

This then is the summons for parents. Vigilance is required, not paranoia. Responsibility is required, not communalism. Loving discipline is required, not absentminded indifference.

Ben Zornes – June 23, 2024

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The old adage that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks is a sentiment that can seep into our mentality about growing in godliness. What sin most easily entices you? You certainly know that God graciously forgives that sin. But do you believe that God is able to give you the victory over that sin? 

Scripture doesn’t present the Christian life as one under bondage to sin. Instead, in regeneration your Heavenly Father gives you a new nature. This new nature is not yet made perfect, there remains a great deal of corruption which must be driven out. So the question naturally arises, “How do I change?”

First, all the virtues needed for overcoming sin––like patience, contentment, self-control––are glorious gifts from God. But as one theologian put it, “God Himself & not His gifts, dwelt in the temple.” This then must be the central understanding of your battle against besetting sin: God dwells in you. As Paul said, “Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you?”

Second, you must cultivate the habit of saying, “Amen” to what God says about you in your baptism. He says, “Likewise reckon yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus.”

Third, you must make the twofold action of confession & repentance habitual. Confession is saying the same the thing about your sin as God says about it, while repentance is turning from your sin and also pursuing Christ. 

Your progress may feel slow. But like mountain switchbacks, you’ll gradually ascend higher. You can’t hike Kilimanjaro in one step. Rather, steady steps will. Know that God dwells in you. Mortify your sins. Mock your temptation. Confess & repent if you do succumb. These things are the mountain switchbacks of sanctification.

Ben Zornes – June 16, 2024

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Summer is here. The days are longer, but the shorts are shorter. I’d like to offer a few biblical principles about modesty. In this feminist age, addressing feminine modesty is akin to saying “Hitler wasn’t all that bad.” So, wish me luck.

To begin with, modesty in apparel isn’t a matter of square footage (or lack thereof). Modesty begins as a matter of the presence or absence of God’s glory. In Eden, Adam and Eve didn’t required clothing because God’s presence endowed them with garments of borrowed light. Sin precipitated the need for clothing to cover the shame of glory-less nakedness. So, clothing spins a tale. It always has and always will. From Eden on clothing said, at bare minimum, God has withdrawn His glorious presence from mankind due to Adam’s sin. However, in eternity, clothing will tell another story, for the white robes of the saints will speak of our righteousness in Christ.

The question, then, for Christians is, “What story do my clothes tell?” Clothing can suggest a wide range of things: one’s occupation or gender, sexual invitation, lazy indifference, attentiveness, disrespect, vanity, and so on. Wearing a clown costume is lawful, but wearing it to a funeral would be insulting. It’s a bit surprising, then, to hear that godliness requires you to think about what others think when you get dressed. The WLC teaches as much: “The duties required in the seventh commandment are, chastity in body, mind, affections, words, and behavior; and the preservation of it in ourselves and others; watchfulness over the eyes and all the senses; temperance, keeping of chaste company, modesty in apparel […].”

This commandment obliges each of us to actively love our neighbor by modesty of apparel. Furthermore, we’re particularly required to keep our eyes watchful so as not to indulge sensual lusts. So then, a Christian’s garments should tell a story of Gospel hope, not of carnal despair.

We have become an immodest culture. Our jokes are crass. Our entertainment feeds our basest desires. Our clothing is precariously perched and this belies how insecure our culture is. God’s glory has departed, and we are left with shame of face. We reach for the fig leaves of our own devising, when the Father call us to be clothed in the righteous robes of Christ, which cover us and fill us with true holiness. May we go to God for forgiveness for the ways in which we have dressed, spoken, thought and acted without modesty. And may He grant us a contentment in His promise to clothe us in the white robes of Christ, and strength to guard both our own and our neighbor’s chastity. If you humble yourself before God, He promises to restore you to the robes of glory-light of Eden 2.0. You are not left in the shame of sin’s nakedness, but are clothed with the promise of the Gospel.

Ben Zornes – June 9, 2024

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