At thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Ps. 16: 11)

“He that despiseth his neighbour sinneth: But he that hath mercy on the poor, happy is he” (Proverbs 14:21).

The message of this proverb is that it is quite possible to sin close to home, and it is also quite possible to be gracious and merciful far away from home.

And of course, there are always ways to distort this. One distortion occurs when the people who live close to you (family and neighbors) are in a position to know what you are really like, while the folks at church see the smiling and very Christian version of you. The name for this particular pattern is hypocrisy.

Another way to violate the wisdom of this proverb would be by shutting yourself up in a tight little circle, family and friends only, and to forget those who have any needs far away from you—the “poor.” Then there is the reverse of this, where someone spends so much time down at the soup kitchen that they neglect their own family and friends. Remember that the apostle teaches us that someone who neglects their family is worse than an infidel (1 Tim. 5:18).

That said, we should make sure that we do not neglect the straightforward teaching of the proverb. Close acquaintance with anyone reveals faults, and when this happens, it is easy to drift into an attitude of contempt or despising. However justified you might feel in having that contempt, it is nevertheless tagged as sinning by Scripture. And the person who extends himself to have mercy on the poor is also doing something for himself as it turns out. “Happy is he,” the passage says. Of course that should not be his primary motive, but the Scriptures do clearly teach this principle. The man who loves his wife loves himself, the apostle says, and this means that it must not be wrong to have this in your mind somewhere. Self-interest is not the same thing as self-centeredness.

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At thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Ps. 16: 11)

“The evil bow before the good; And the wicked at the gates of the righteous” (Proverbs 14:19).

As we consider this portion of the Word of God, we need to remember that it is a proverb, and not an axiom out of Euclid. There is never a possible instance of a triangle having less or more than three sides. When your geometry teachers asks you if a triangle can ever have four sides, the answer cannot be sometimes.

And so when we look at what this proverb says, which is that the evil bow down to the good, and the wicked bow before the gates of the righteous, counter-examples crowd into our minds. In our unbelief, we always tend to focus on Haman building the gallows for Mordecai, and never the spectacle of Haman hanging from those same gallows.

This is the kind of proverb that we should evaluate by the video, and never by the snapshot. The contest between good and evil is a story, and it happens over time, and—as it happens—it may be that God has written a pot boiler. Perhaps you have had the experience of reading a thriller, and right when it gets really intense, you are tempted to flip to the back pages to see if the main character is still alive. Because at the moment it didn’t look like he could be.

God certainly loves cliffhangers. If the evil bowed before the good constantly, in some non-stop fashion, there would be no room for faith. The good guys win, Scripture tells us, but there are many chapters when this does not seem to be the case. David has to run from Saul for years. Abraham wandered in tents, not inheriting anything. The early Christians scattered after the martyrdom of Stephen.

We must remember to let God tell us what kind of story we are in. We are in the kind where the good guys win.

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At thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Ps. 16: 11)

“The wisdom of the prudent is to understand his way: But the folly of fools is deceit” (Proverbs 14:8).

“The wisdom of the prudent is to understand his way, But the folly of fools is deceit” (Prov. 14:8, NKJV).

This is a proverb where the standard form of parallelism helps us to understand the full import of the proverb. The first half helps us grasp what is being said in the second portion.

A prudent man is wise, and why is he wise? It is in the very nature of his wisdom to “understand his way.” He sees and understands what is going on around him. He watches his step. He knows what his intentions actually are when it comes to the path he has chosen. To use the language that the apostle John uses in the New Testament, he is walking in the light.

But in the second half of the proverb, what does it mean when it says that the “folly of fools is deceit?” Deceit? Deceit for whom? I take it that the parallel structure leads us to believe that the principal problem here is one of self-deception. The wise and prudent man understands his way, and the foolish man does not. The reason why the foolish man does not comprehend is because of this thing called “deceit.”

The folly of fools is driven onward because a fool is one who lies to himself, and then there is a second fool who believes it. And when the story is over, we discover that the two fools are one and the same. A lying heart spins a yarn that he wants to hear, and having heard, decides that it is entirely plausible.

In certain respects, self-deception is a true mystery. But we know from Scripture that it is a real problem. A man who hears the Word without doing it deceives himself (Jas. 1:22). A man who puffs himself up in conceit deceives himself (Gal. 6:3). Someone who does not bridle is own tongue deceives himself (Jas. 1:26). The thing happens.

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At thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Ps. 16: 11)

“A prudent man concealeth knowledge: But the heart of fools proclaimeth foolishness” (Proverbs 12:23).

Another way of saying this is that a prudent man holds back, while a foolish man empties whatever box it is that he has. A prudent man has knowledge, but he doesn’t let us see all of it. A foolish man has a bunch of nothing, and he spreads it out all over the table for us.

When someone is worth showing off . . . the prudent man still doesn’t. When something is not worth displaying, the foolish man will make sure to roll out all of it.

Another way of looking at this is to realize that a knowledge man is humble about what he knows, while a foolish man is very conceited about what he doesn’t know. If the foolish man could recognize that what he is displaying was foolishness . . . it wouldn’t be foolishness.

The prudent man understands that he doesn’t have all knowledge, and so he is careful about what he reveals. He budgets for the possibility that he does not know it all, and thus he increases the chances that what he is holding back is genuinely valuable. In contrast, the fool has no filter. He just vents everything. If he is thinking it inside, then he needs to be talking about it outside. The one good thing we can say about him is that he is certainly willing to share.

One of the things we can observe about all of this is that while human nature doesn’t really change, the advent of technology has certainly be able to amplify the reach of that human nature. In other words, the voluble fool can now share everything he doesn’t know on Twitter and Instagram, and people in New Zealand can be reading it in just seconds.

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At thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Ps. 16: 11)

“He, that being often reproved hardeneth his neck, shall suddenly be destroyed, and that without remedy” (Proverbs 29:1).

I read somewhere that there is a character in one of Hemingway’s novels who was asked how he went bankrupt. His reply was that it was first gradual, and then sudden. This proverb reminds me of that principle. First gradual, and then sudden.

The picture here is that of a fool who reproved or reprimanded frequently, but he doesn’t want to receive any of it. He is often reproved, but each time he just stiffens or hardens his neck. This resistance is a reflex move. It is habitual. Admonition follow admonition, but the foot can’t be bothered to change course at all.

When someone is stiffening their neck, it looks like they are being vindicated in the event, at least in that moment. Someone reproved, and the exhortation is just shrugged off. After it is shrugged off, the sky is still blue and the grass is still green. Everything is the same, and so the rebuke must have been inaccurate. Then it happens again, and the same state of affairs just continues on. This happens, Solomon tells us, often.

But a day finally comes when everything just gives way. The whole thing collapses, and in a way that makes people think of that “last straw” proverb. The fool believed that everything was going his way, regardless of what these rebukers might say or think. And so he was justified in ignoring their appeals . . . until he wasn’t.

Unfortunately, even after the final event has shown that the exhorters were correct in their caution, it is often the case that the fool is not convinced, even then. It is far easier to blame others, or curse his bad luck, or assume that fate has conspired against him. But it remains the case that God is not mocked, which means in its turn that a man reaps what he sows.

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