At thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Ps. 16: 11)
“Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles”
Proverbs 21:23
Whoever guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from troubles
Proverbs 21:23, NKJV
The fact that Scripture teaches us to guard the tongue is widely known, but Christians generally locate the requirement in the famous passage in the book of James. The tongue is a fire, set ablaze by the fire of hell, and it is capable of burning the whole course of nature down (Jas. 3:6). This is true enough, of course, but it needs to be more widely recognized that this emphasis is something we find throughout all of Scripture.
Solomon gives us really good counsel here. An excellent way of staying free from troubles is to make a point of not getting into that trouble in the first place. The best way to get out is not to get in. And the very best way to avoid getting into to trouble is to set a guard on your mouth and tongue.
This protects you from the consequences of what you said, but more than this, it protects you from the consequences of what people thought you might have said. When there are a lot of words, sin is not very far away (Prov. 10:19). Sin just waits at the door, listening for the opportunity that promises to come along shortly.
If Solomon were alive today, he would quite possibly add our thumbs to his list. Guard your mouth, and tongue, and thumbs. The advent of the smart phone has given many Christians the opportunity to multiply words—and sin is not far away—and in a new area of human communication where we do not yet have cultural guardrails firmly established.
Many Christians—via Instagram, TikTok, SnapChat, or Facebook—type things with their thumbs that they wouldn’t dream of saying to anyone’s face. And because mass communication is new to them also, they don’t know how to read the feedback signals. In many cases, there are no feedback signals. But the fact that they can’t recognize the ways they are wrecking havoc does not mean that they are not wrecking havoc. I know of Christians who in person are very concerned about demeanor and tone, but who, once online, turn into obnoxicons.
There is a better way. Guard your thumbs.